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If this seems weird to you, that’s normal. Hart admits that this concept is pretty easy to misunderstand. He’s not saying that you should be miserable and unhappy with the way things are in your life. He just means that you should be able to stop and say, “Things are pretty great, but I know I can do better.” You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. - Maya Angelou (used as the epigraph for this book).
Let’s face it, negativity is everywhere. Especially in the hyper-connected age of social media – all you have to do is scroll down to any comment section to see it. Me? Well my monster is a multi-headed monster. My monster’s first head, is the “not me.” It’s that monster that says, it wasn’t me - nope, I didn’t do it (pretty sure my kids have this monster too!) The “not me” monster also touts the phrase - it can’t, and absolutely won’t happen to me - others yes, but hell to the no - not me. Stream It Or Skip It: ‘Louis Tomlinson: All Of Those Voices’ On Paramount+, Where The Ex-One Direction Singer Finds Himself As He Flies SoloYou’ve heard this advice before. Yes, of course you have. It’s straight out of the self-help bible. The first two tools were pretty basic self-help concepts that you’ve definitely heard before. This next one is a bit more original. Comparison – Comparing yourself to others, whether that is above or below yourself, will always take your focus away from where you need to be. All that matters is that you are doing your best
Stream It Or Skip It: 'Mark Normand: Soup To Nuts' On Netflix, A Comedian Who Likes To Say He's Kevin Hart While Delivering Zingers More Like Larry David The last tool we’re going to talk about is humility – something that becomes incredibly important as we begin to reach our goals. Okay, here’s the bad news. We’re living in pretty difficult times. The world is more connected and yet more divided than ever before. Hate is prevalent and negativity rife. Southern Charm' Alum Chelsea Meissner Confirms The Birth Of Her First Child: "One Month Postpartum"Noel Fielding Almost Chokes Up Sending Two Bakers Home on 'The Great British Baking Show' "Pastry Week"